learn and also see how wicked humans can be. I am sorry if my words may
hurt a few persons,but note that what i put here is an expose of personal
experience.
A dating relationship is a period of knowing each other, and see if
both are compatible and can make couples, it's not a do or die affair,like my
cousin Will call it "it's a game, you may win or lose the match".
My dear friends,especially the males, don't be deceived or let the whole idea of
holy or church goer deceive you, be wise as a serpent. Some persons may
come from a christian home or be a "born again" doesn't mean their ain't tendency
of them having psycho issues or have bad attitude or satanic spirit.
We have all had our share of hurt and disappointment from people we loved
and cared for, reasons best known to them. Despite that we moved on and in
our little way remain in touch with those that hurt us,in our own little way,with
a redefined relationship.
I am not perfect, hence I acknowledge i have erred in one or the other, still that
didn't take away the fact that I was so caring and nice, was humble and made
sacrifices for the sake of this despite even Josephine's shortcomings, with the
hope she will get better and change for good.
It is said that the secret of a pudding is in the eating, I tolerated so much, but I
guess every person has it's tolerance limit. First thought of what people like u
and others will say and persuasion from a dear friend ,made me try to still hope for
a change. One day, I realised that and decided that it's not so much about
what you think and say but about me,my life and future. I dusted my foot in a
polite manner and moved on.
Her stupidity, stubbornness and attitude wouldn't make her accept fate and trying
working on her destructive self.
On a glorious day, a day God has ordained for the wedding of my Sis. She was
invited with a Godly heart and innocence by my Sis, all because she didn't want
to back down on the promise made to her that when her wedding comes she
will be the one to handle one or two things.
Truth being told despite all I still kept her bad spirit, manipulative spirit,
deceptive spirit ( someone who could paint herself snow white) from certain
people and they all think and concluded she has being jilted after two years of
relationship. It's been close to a year I saw her, though she has being pestering
the life of me and all persons around me. The destructive spirit in her that made
me dust my foot, was brought to bear, shown to the public by herself.
The traditional wedding has being down, just few hours to d Big Day which I
had so much to do. At about 4am a hot water was poured on me. Was it
intended for me or my girl it's a big question i can't answer because that was the
couch she manage to sleep, as there were so much people in the house? But one
thing is sure this is a wicked act, done by someone who only God knows can
kill out of reasons I can't answer? It hurts me that a person that comes from
such a nice family , with siblings whom I respect could do such.... I always say
it,a persons character and mentality is more of an individual thing than
generalizing a tribe or religion
I thank God for putting the devil to shame and making the wedding successful
after all, i leave her to God
My dear friends especially those who had castigated my decisions, I leave you
to conclude.... I do hope their is a msg for all of us to learn.
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